Have you ever had so much to do that you become overwhelmed and end up doing nothing at all? I never use to be this way, but lately it seems to be with me all the time. I know this much stress cannot be good for me, plus I feel guilty because there are so many people out there with a hell of a lot more to be stressed about then I have. I figure the best way to get through this is one day at a time...sometimes one hour at a time...or one moment at a time. I have to remember to do the things that take care of me FIRST even though it may seem frivolous and not a good use of my time. I just know that if I don't, if I keep on the way I have been, the outcome is not going to be good.
I have let my busy life pull me away from my horse. This has been the worse summer for riding in 10 years. I just never got out there. Maybe "THAT" in the long run will prove to be what is wrong with me. No vitamin "H" makes for a cranky, overwhelmed, and yes, bitchy Char.
At any rate, I did go ride yesterday even though to do so I had to go early and I had to do a lot of planning on how it was gonna work out! Mick had signed up for a cow sorting and I definitely wanted to go to that and watch him. The clinic started at 1:00. We took my car down and parked it so I could ride out to the barn with Mick. I rode Boo, and rode back to my car with Mick. Once he dropped me off I went home, showered, packed an ice chest with food and drink and took the dogs out (the real reason I had to come back home at all). Once I found the barn where the sorting was to be I tried to be useful and take a few pictures. It was interesting and looked like it could be fun. Mick really liked it, so it is looking like our western/dressage horse/trail horse may also turn out to be a bit of a working cow horse.
Now I know that it might not be good to mix the dressage with the cow stuff...but Bay isn't an FEI horse, so I think he should have a bit of a challenge for his mind outside the norm. He is a very bright horse and seemed to handle things just fine. We will see how he is for Sarah this coming week. I think since she rides him almost daily, he will go right back into what is trained into him the better part of the week. I know Mick has plans to go to another cow sorting in October and to a clinic in November. Now it's time for me to figure out what clinics and lessons I'm going to get involved with. I need to get Mick to go out for a trail ride with me and to teach me how to pull the horse trailer. That should be interesting.
I don't feel so bad now! LOL I did not know how to pull my horse trailer either until about a month ago! It actually wasn't to bad, and I think I will do pretty darn good until I have to back up! But I practiced on that too, and even got it between the lines! LOL
ReplyDeleteI know what you mean about being so busy, no time for ones self! Seems this summer has been super busy for me too. It started out slow, and I wondered at the time, that It was going to be a boring summer! NOT!
Good luck and hope you get in a few more rides before winter sets in!
Sounds like fun! Where was the cow sorting? My husband and I are always looking for a way to get our horses on cows more.
ReplyDeleteI suspect the variety of activities will do Bay good. He won't get sour with any of them. Keep me posted on your clinic schedule -- it's always more fun to audit when you know the participants. My riding schedule has been disrupted for the past month due to family health issues. You're right, Vitamin H goes a long way toward reducing stress.
ReplyDeleteA change of activities makes them think rather than just operate on autopilot. Sounds like you had a good time
ReplyDeleteMy summer was not filled with as many rides either due to my dear friends injury! I have had several rides with my sisters though and that has been fun!!!
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